The point of this weekend trip was actually to hear a Harrisburg Symphony Orchestra performance at the Forum, but we decided to make a downtown-day of it.

We started by going to the late Mass at Saint Patrick Cathedral. It was a baptismal service, which was especially interesting to me, since half my family is Catholic, and I have been to Catholic weddings, Catholic funerals, and dozens of ordinary Masses, but not a baptism. I must say, the Godparent relationship that is formal in the Catholic and Anglican churches is a very touching one. The Godmother of the baby who was being presented wore a corsage, and this seemed to me to a beautiful detail that symbolized the relationship that this lady and her husband were entering into with the new little one. They were standing with the baby's parents and promising before God to help teach the little girl about the faith that they were bringing her into in the service. The lady and her husband cherish the little girl and her little blossoming faith. It is a solemn thing, but you could boil it down to: when teaching children about God, the more adults involved the merrier. I hope that does not seem frivolous but it struck me that way.

During the Mass the priest gave a very encouraging sermon on the proper arrangement and place of marriage in society. As far as international institutions go, the Catholic church has been the foremost in defending the traditional views of marriage, abortion, euthanasia, family, and community. It was amazing and wonderful to visit this beautiful church and find such a realistic and healthy understanding of man's sin nature, but how marriage should be honoured and maintained despite our fallen nature.

The priest also spoke about the counseling that is available within the Catholic church. They suggest premarrital, marrital, and postmarital counseling. Many other churches have standardized premarrital counseling, but it seems that fewer have regular marrital counseling. The Catholic understanding is that marriage is a sacrament, and divorce is an extreme option and should not be entered into without a great deal of struggle to keep the marriage in tact. They have an established process which they ask couples to complete so as to avoid having to break their sacred vows. Perhaps I am generalizing, but it seems that in other kinds of churches divorce takes the church by surprise. We do live in a sinful world and we should be ready in advance to deal with our own sinful hearts when it comes to marriage. If we do not have things arranged in advance it is not likely that when it comes to a crisis we will be terribly well equipped to deal with that crisis. (I think I sound like Mom.....)
The Catholic church also has established postmarrital counseling. This struck me as a very valuable idea. If you hold marriage in such a place of honour, when it is ended by the death of one of the spouses, the spouse left behind does need to understand that a new system of thinking and living will have to be implemented in their life. Having a system in place which the church can extend to the grieving person might be a help in what would seem the worst time of their life.
I know I speak from my inexperience, and I tend to like things to be well arranged. But I wanted to mention the good things I found at Saint Patrick's. Good practices should be evaluated and copied from all parts of the church. The Catholics might be able to teach us Protestants a thing or two yet! It was so refreshing to see Christ at work in a differnt body, different city, different expression of the faith that we hold in common.

From Mass we walked a few blocks to find the pub. Yes, this is a very good thing to do when you have been to church, have the car parked in a garage for the day, and will be walking over to an enchantingly beautiful theatre for a concert after the meal.

Especially when it is such a fun pub. If you are in Harrisburg and need sustenance and provender, try
Molly Brannigans.

The food was fantastic and the company even better. It was wonderful to bask in the friendship of people who have known us for so long and still like us. I am sure you are going to ask how much we had to pay out to be able to make that statement... but really a few Guinnesses later and everyone is very jolly.
